Romantic Ideas

Communication is key in a marriage.  How do you talk to your partner? Do you constantly nag or do you have positive comments?  Try naming three things each day that your partner has done really well that you are thankful for.  Try to do this for as long as you can.  Habits can take 27 days to form.  Try every night before or at dinner to list three positive things about your partner and see how things change.

“The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love. It is a fact, however, that when we receive affirming words we are far more likely to be motivated to reciprocate.” (The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman)

Do you know what your partners favorites are? Favorite food, flowers, color, movie, book, past-time, sport, etc… Make a list and take the time and find out what they LOVE. Use the list to make their every-day life more enjoyable.

This one is specifically for the guys out there because it will not work the other way around. Guys, take you lover out to see a romantic movie. She will be pleasantly surprised that you are sensitive and willing enough to watch a mushy film with her. Make sure you do not complain or badmouth the movie because it will turn her off.

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The key to being romantic is to always do something different to keep your partner on their heels. I did the dishes without my wife asking me to! Do something that you would normally not do but that your partner has always wanted. Wash the dishes, do the laundry, clean the bathroom, do whatever it is to make your partners jaw drop. You will be amazed at the response you get. If you want to really make your partner happy try to do this thing continually and make it a habit.